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Finding solace in imperfection

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O ver the past few days, I have tried to consciously maintain some distance from social media. The reasons were multiple — placing too much importance on my online interactions, being affected by arguments that took place there, and investing more time and energy in that unreal world than the real one. I was feeling a bit uneasy with all of this. There was a kind of gloominess in my disposition, which was unexplained. I decided to take a break. I couldn’t be very successful in the effort and ended up going back to my favourite medium, Twitter. Although I haven’t quite gotten back to my usual form, the interactions have become limited. Now, direct messages far exceed the number of posts I usually spammed my followers’ timelines with. And when I do post or respond, I try to ignore the haters, the trolls. Just like we do in real life. A few articles/features I have read recently pointed toward what could really be wrong — the idea of being ‘perfect’ and ‘happy’ all the time. Too

The creative case of an IT minister

(An open letter to Mr Kapil Sibal) Dear Mr Sibal, Subject: Screening of content on social networking sites I have been thinking of writing to you ever since I read that article in the newspaper about your proposal of screening ALL content that is posted on social networking sites. But other things have kept me tied up. I was too busy networking online. I hope you will kindly forgive me for the delay. You may have been busy too. There are a lot many things that the government has to bother about. I hope this letter catches the attention of your trained eye after you have dealt with the worries of running a country. I have also been wondering all this while if you have ever tried to find your long-lost childhood friends on a social networking site... or tried to network with/subscribe/follow the lesser-accessible mortals. Mr Sibal, we netizens actually take pride in poking fun at our friends through random updates. And since we are not celebrities/netas/stars, the media does not turn

Your tree...

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I am still not sure if the tree that you planted is a Rudraksha or not – since I have been told that it is mostly found in the cold Himalayan terrain and is difficult to grow in a desert state. Not that it matters anyway. It must be nearly four years old — and I have forgotten its planting date, since I never knew that it would remain as a memoir — and has started bearing fruit. The flowers it bore for the first two years after you left it here were few, when your memories were very strong. The tree blossomed in all its greenery. While I took little notice of its growth, your images were still very fresh in my mind. I could see the back of your palm and the nerves lining it, your feet, then small and shriveled with age and illness, your hair and stooping back. I clearly remembered the way you spoke too. I had my complaints against you but nobody would listen. At the same time, I used to look at the tree and wonder if it is going to survive the onslaught of the changing seasons. It d

Diwali ka mausam kuchh aisa hota hai...

जब भागता हुआ सा दिन पकड़ नहीं आता है, उँगलियों के बीच से खिसक जाता है, गुलमोहर की छाँव में आँख-मिचोली खेलते हुए शाम रोज़ थोडा और जल्दी आ जाती है जब हवा कुछ नर्म सी होने लगे और कुनकुनी धुप ओढ़ लो तो सुहाती है तब सुबह अलसाई सी उठती है और रात खिंचती ही चली जाती है कभी खिड़कियों की धूल झाड़ते हुए, नए कपड़े पहन इतराती है. बाजारों में रौनक अचानक बढ़ने लगती है और रोशनी पूरे शहर को नहलाती है रात के दो बजे भी अगर निकल पड़ो कोई फूल, कोई मिठाई पुराने शहर में कहीं मिल ही जाती है ...कभी कभार ही तो ऐसा होता है जब हजारों दीये जलता हैं, दिवाली आती है

Cutting Chai?

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I t was a sweaty June afternoon in Jaipur, I was cooking chapatis and hating it as much as any other woman would - given the heat coupled with the fumes from the kitchen. The mobile rang and I could not resist taking a look at the number. It was my friend from Mumbai and I suddenly felt guilty about not meeting her before returning from my two-week trip to the city. 'Emm... it was the hectic training schedule. I told you, didn't I? Ah... you would know how offices are, and how maddening is working for a small-city person in such a big, bad city like Mumbai.' I had nearly thought out my lines by the time I answered. But she wasn't really into it. 'Do you know what cutting chai means?' 'Yes, why!' (Cutting chai from Mumbai to Jaipur, why on earth?) 'Does your mom know?' 'I don't know...' (It was like people asking you, does your mom know you drink?) 'How many people in Jaipur would know?' 'I am sure, quite a few.' (And i